These are the reasons 'hot' Lagos babes are still single? (REASONS)

I came across this piece online and it kept me asking if these 5 reasons are part of the reason for this.

Are these mere speculations on possible reasons why these hot, smart, down to earth, and funny girls are single? Read on...


Men presume they’re already taken

This is a number one reason most of the hottest girls in Lagos are still single. A lot of men assume that because the girl is pretty, has an education, makes her own money, and seems happy, she must already be taken so they give up even before they start. They do not bother to get close to the girl or even ask her out as they feel they would be fighting an already lost battle.

Society does not set the rules

In Nigeria, most girls are generally groomed from a young age to believe that finding a man and having a family is the most important accomplishment in life. As a result, there is the expectation from the society that a girl above 25 should either be married or in a serious relationship that would lead to marriage. The thing with Lagos girls, though, is that they do not conform to this dictate of the society. The Lagos girl most times is occupied with so many other things making “finding a man to spend the rest of her life with” an item not so high on her list of to do’s. Basically, she makes her own rules and lives the way she wants to rather than being told what is and isn’t appropriate.

Most men are intimidated by their confidence

Lagos girls are one of the most confident girls in the world, especially the hot ones. While the confidence can be attractive, it tends to make the men want to run for cover. Usually, even the cockiest of men will second guess themselves before even daring to approach a Lagos girl. They get intimated and scared as they do not want to risk getting rejected.

The men are not as into commitment as they were

Thanks to modernization and influence from western cultures, a majority of Nigerian men, especially the one in Lagos have adopted the “hook up culture”, and this now seems to take precedence over serious relationships. It is therefore now difficult for Lagos girls to find commitment in a sea of men who just are not into it. Hence they remain single.

Most of the girls are focused on their career and have the time to meet men

In Lagos, the hustle is real for not just men but women as well. Most of the hottest girls work a lot of hours a day, including weekends as they focused on their career and want to climb as many ladders as they can. They are consumed with work, and coupled with the Lagos traffic there is little or no time for actual recreation , making the chances of them meeting men much slimmer. The few who end up creating profiles on online dating sites eventually give up as they may never get the time to meet up with their interests or when they do, they find they have been deceived.


What do you think guys?

Revealed; The Reason Why Funke Akindele Had A Private Secret Wedding To JJC

Here is the reason why Nollywood actress Funke Akindele had a private secret wedding ceremony in London to Nigerian rapper JJC.
Olufunke Akindele is a Nigerian actress best known for her role as Jenifa in the Nigerian movies and TV show, Jenifa. She was also known for her famous fabulous wedding to Kenny Oyolede in 2012 which ended in divorce.

Early this year there were speculations and reports that Funke had found a new love and it was with Nigerian singer Abdulrasheed Bello aka JJC yet no one could prove it for sure.
Last week, the couple exchanged vows on August 23 in a secret London wedding in the presence of her friends and family on her 39th birthday. Fans have also said she introduced herself as Mrs. Bello during a subsequent public appearance.
Usually, Nigerian celebrities make a big and loud celebration of their wedding ceremonies and this was what Funke did with her first wedding Kehinde Almoroof Oloyede. The wedding was public knowledge, celebrities attended and pictures were released to show the couple was married. However, that marriage lasted around 400 days only.
So, it makes sense that the Jenifa actress would choose a more intimate ceremony with only those she loves around to witness her second marriage.
According to an insider that talked to NETng,“She really just wanted the media to focus on her work, and stay off her personal life. And she made sure she didn’t contribute to that media feast, that she didn’t supply the leads that led to gossip and scandals.”
Her new husband JJC is already a father with three kids from three different women but this did not stop him from committing to the lovely Yoruba actress.
A source also said,“They wanted the best time to make the move, and it is clear why they went over to London, away from everyone. Funke wasn’t about to be burnt a second time.”

From the Back: Bride Nabbed Having ‘S*x’ with Ex Boyfriend on Wedding Day in an Uncompeleted Building (Photo)

A suggestive picture of a bride having
a last s*xual encounter with her ex-boyfriend a short distance away from her wedding venue has emerged.

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See How & Why 8 Lesbian Girls That Were Caught Expelled From Secondary School

Barely a week after the the local newspaper covered a story about the rising number of lesbians in Girls High Schools all over the country, the administration has now sent home eight girls over the matter.

The school’s principal, Pacifica Nyambong’i said that a group of eight students in Form Two, who were also jointly being investigated for arson claims, had been sent home and others readmitted after undergoing counseling and promising to change. The principal admitted that some Form Two students confessed to being lesbians who had lovers in the school while other girls denied the allegations.

“I received a note listing some girls as suspected lesbians who also planned to burn down the school on December 10th, we embarked on investigations to unearth the truth,”

Ms Nyambog’i revealed. Those who confessed to being lesbians were forgiven, counseled and readmitted but those who denied were sent home.

The parents of those sent home have however mounted a strong defence to the allegations claiming that their girls were beaten during the interrogations in order to admit by force.

Also, Anglican run St James Girls High School in Zimbabwe has been hit by a lesbian s*x scandal which has resulted in the expulsion of pupils, one of them for offering a teacher s*x in exchange for lenience after being caught in the act.

The scandal reportedly started in June when two Form Six pupils were caught by fellow pupils in the middle of the night having a nice time under the sheets, BMetro reported. A report was made to school authorities.

After a probe, the two girls (names withheld) were suspended for two weeks. According to a source, the pupils showed remorse during the disciplinary hearing and promised to give up the lesbian antics. On returning to school after serving the sentence, the two are said to have kept a distance from each other.

“Everyone was convinced that they had indeed stopped their behaviour. They even stopped talking to each other and we all thought that the relationship was over. Little did we know that we were being fooled,” said a source.

Hillarious : 6 Lies Nigerian Guys Tell When They're Hitting On You

We’ve all heard the famed Yoruba demon stories.
This Yoruba demon behaviour is not limited to just the Yoruba tribe. Nigerian guys have gotten “the player” title. Just ask any non-Nigerian babe.

Our Naija guys have very sweet mouths. They know how to “whine” you so you show them where your mumu button is.

Here are some common lies Naija guys have been known to utter when they’re hitting on you:



1.  You look familiar
My sister, this line is as old as the country we call Nigeria. You don’t look familiar, you look like his next victim.

2.  I just wanna be friends
Friends with benefits? Friends in Christ? Friends in what? 

 

3. I’m single
*Laughs in Chinese* When a Naija guy says he’s single, just know his harem of women is down to just 3
 

4.  It’s complicated
This is the phrase you’d hear from the serial cheaters and married men acting single. It’s not complicated, he
 just won’t face his current relationship.



5. I’m not like other guys
Oshey Mr different.

Differential equation.

We hail thee!



6. i've never met anyone like you before.
don't feel special,he says this to all girls

A must read: Read why men love big boobs!

This is a question that is very confusing to many people, especially considering the fact that breasts are actually just bags of body fat stuck to the chest of women; regardless of that, men cannot stop loving them or staring at them.

While there are different theories on this matter, we give you the top 5 explanations on why men love boobs so much, especially the big ones!


1.Sign of femininity

The female breasts usually start to develop when a girl hits puberty, it is one of the first signs that she is becoming a woman and is generally a sign of femininity; it is therefore not so surprising that men would be so obsessed with the first reminder that a woman is a member of the opposite sex and a prospective mate. Therefore, the bigger her sign of femininity, the bigger the attraction; after all, Opposites attract!

2. Higher arousal

Breasts play a very vital role when it comes to love making – a lot of women get highly aroused when their breasts are fondled, men on the other hand, also get aroused by fondling a woman’s breasts and knowing how much pleasure they are giving and getting. To cut the story short, men are generally aroused by the female breasts and the bigger it is, the more aroused they seem to get.
3. It is biological

Men’s love for women with big breasts can also be blamed on biological factors that they themselves cannot explain. The female breasts are very important for the nurturing of their babies, so in a sense, a lot of people see it as a sign of fertility and ability to have and take care of babies.
Men are biologically wired to find fertility attractive, otherwise, how would we preserve the human race?

4. The mystery

The mystery that comes with a woman’s breasts is one that men cannot seem to get enough of; it is generally unacceptable for women to come out in public with their breasts showing, however, the fact that they can be noticed through clothes is a constant reminder of their presence, which in turn seems to get men excited at the thought of what they cannot see.
The bigger the reminder of what is underneath a woman’s blouse, the more fascinated a lot of men get.

5.  They are simply beautiful and attractive

This is one of the most obvious reasons why men are obsessed with big breasts – they look good and attractive, end of story. The breasts are easily the most attractive part of a woman in the eyes of most men so it is not surprising that they are obsessed with the bigger ones, sometimes it is as simple as that!

Are you one of those women who are not so endowed in the breast department and wish you could go up to a bigger cup size? Don’t get discouraged, there are natural and easy ways you can do so without spending a fortune on surgery,

MUST READ: 6 Helpful Ways To Stop Masturbation

The immense pleasure derived from frequent masturbation can be extremely addictive. However, this addiction can become an obsessive activity that interferes with daily living.
Furthermore, it may result in loss of s*x drive, depression, or even impotence. To prevent these potentially severe side effects, Date360ng.com reveals the six most effective ways to end chronic masturbati0n.
1. Rubber Band
Place a rubber band around your wrist. Every time you get the urge to masturbate, flick the rubber band. This will eventually condition you to associate masturbation with the pain, thereby deterring you from the act. The mere thought of masturbation may even cease to cross your mind.
2. Distraction
When you get the urge to masturbate, quickly engage in an alternative activity. Whether you pick up a book or go to the movies with friends, participate in anything that will successfully distract you from your masturbatory desires.
3. Help From Loved Ones
If you have a romantic partner, be open with them about your condition. This should remove any feelings of guilt or shame associated with chronic masturbation, as you will no longer have to hide a “dirty little secret” from your loved one.
4. Replace That Pleasure With A Different One
Find other pleasurable activities that bring you joy. Find an enjoyable hobby that requires your full attention. For example, if you enjoy art take a painting class.
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5. Jogging
Jogging and other forms of exercise are a great way to take masturbation off your mind. Jogging will require your complete attention – from listening to your heartbeat to inhaling each new breath of fresh air. Masturbation will have no place on the forefront of your mind. So the more you engage in exercise, the less time you will have to think about masturbating. Eventually, you may be able to overcome your addiction.
6. Evaluate Your Life
Analyze your life. Determine what makes you happy and what does not. You may find that something stressful in your life is causing this chronic masturbation. Elucidating the underlying stressor will enable you to resolve it, ultimately allowing you to overcome the addiction.

S*x Before Marriage Is OK As Long As It’s Mutually Pleasurable – Female Pastor

A pastor has authored a book which says it’s okay for singles to indulge in s*x before marriage, Christian or not.
Having s*x outside marriage even though accepted by society, is frowned upon by christians.
An author, Bromleigh McCleneghan, has attempted to explain why it may be okay to actually indulge in ‘guilt-free’ s*x even as a single christian who doesn’t conform to the world (okay na).

According to her, it’s okay to have s*x along as it’s “mutually pleasurable and affirming“. She also said it’s not by force to stay off s*x, especially if you became single by circumstance.
The married mother of three who is also an associate pastor at the Union Church of Hinsdale in Chicago, USA, said it’s also great to be faithful to your sexual partner, even if you are both unmarried.
Here’s what she said below:
“If we refrain from having s*x that isn’t mutually pleasurable and affirming, that doesn’t respect the sacred worth of ourselves and our partners…
Chastity, or just s*x, requires that whether we are married or unmarried, our s*x lives restrain our egos, restrain our desire for physical pleasure when pursuing it would bring harm to self or other.”
What do you think?


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4 Stupid Things Ladies Do In Bed And Still Laugh Hard Over Them

Our bodies can do many funny sounds and things, especially when we get busy. This list of stuff is hilarious, and you may have done some of them in bed. Laugh away.
You fart during intercourse
That’s a pretty sensitive topic! However, since the private parts are located close to the butt and absolute pressure is caused by the penis on your intestines, you may fart. Men do that too, but women do it more often due to their physiology. When you are with the partner for a long time, it’s ok. Both of you may not even notice it or have a hearty laugh over it. But what if you are with someone for the first time?
You kick the guy…
…on his balls. That happens a lot. When the girl feels right or is a bit clumsy, she may accidentally kick him. How do you know you just did it? Well, the poor fellow folds in half and tries not to scream or curse.
You pee on him
Penis rubs against your urethra, and it may evoke the desire to pee. Some girls can’t control it, and things happen.
You break his penis
Penile fracture is not a very common injury, but it happens. Especially if you two use the cowgirl position. The girl on the top is the most dangerous position for s*x. It hurts a lot and the situation is embarrassing, but it is also funny.
Surely there are more situations that make people laugh over the unlucky lovers, but those sound a bit dirty. So, let’s just leave them out!


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6 Habits That Make A Lady/Guy Dont Wanna Date You

Finding love is hard.
Sometimes when you’ve been single for a long time, you begin to question yourself. Finding isn’t easy. But the love search is easily complicated by some habits you have.
“And the worst part, you don’t even know you’re sabotaging yourself.”
Many longtime single people who have been searching for love usually have habits that reduce their chances. Some of your habits could be stopping you from moving past the first few dates. Here are some of the major things that make you undateable:
1. You’ve got a big Ego
We know these kinds of people who think and act like everyone is beneath them. Like they’re better than everyone else. Your big ego could be getting in your way of finding love. If you think you’re better than everyone, how are you going to settle with one person?
2. Working too much
Hard work is good. Successful people are hard and smart workers. But how will you have time to date when you work a 12 hour day?
3. Being too clingy
You know those guys/ladies that call your phone 5 times a day after knowing you for a few days. If you’re one of those people, you’re clingy. And this comes off as being desperate. It could be chasing away your love interests.
4. Unrealistic standards
Unrealistic standards can be hurting your chances of finding love. Example, a girl who wants an RMD-looking kind of guy will wait for a very long time. Or a guy who wants a girl who looks like Kim K and behaves like mother Theresa might find himself growing “mettu” as we say in Naija. Set realistic standards and you will find love sooner.
5. Lying too much
Some people’s names need to be changed to Linus or maybe Pinocchio. This is because they lie about every little thing. Nobody likes being lied to. If you’re a Nigerian Pinocchio (male and female), please change your ways to find a partner.
6. Being too argumentative
Nigerians love to argue. If you’re on a date and your partner thinks A is better than B. And you think B is better than A. There is no need to talk them to death till they agree with you. Nobody likes an argumentative partner. Respect people’s rights to their opinions even if it’s different from yours.


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5 Ways To Avoid Pregnancy Without Using Condom

Pregnancy for some people who are not ready is a shock. This is happening because people are not using condoms when they have S3xual intercourse, But in addition I present to you 5 cases when you can make love without condoms, but still not get pregnant.
1. The safe week
This is the time between the 8th day to the 20th day of a woman’s cycle. This means that you can have it on the first day on your period, Not applicable to every lady tho coz system varies.
2. Withdrawal Method ( pull out)
This method is made with the pulling out of the penis from a woman’s vagina before his ejaculation.
3. Birth control pills
This pills are the safest ways of couple to avoid pregnancy. This pills will control the woman’s fertility in order to prevent pregnancy but most at times those drugs might come with side effects especially contraceptives.

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4. The effective copper T
This is committed when a doctor will implant a device which can be removed when the couple is ready to have a baby.
5. Sterilization
This method can 100% guarantee to prevent the pregnancy risks, either for man or woman. However, it is a permanent procedure, so unless you are not sure to not want biological children of your own in the future, then do not opt for this. Hope this tips helps You?
NOTE:This is specifically for Only Married Couples

The Four Most Dangerous S*x Positions Men Should Run Away From

If you are a man and most times you see yourself engaging in these four s*x positions, better be warned before you land in big trouble.
Can you guess which bedroom moves are the most dangerous? I’ll give you a clue – it’s not missionary.
Injuries during s*x are more common than you think and the positions you experiment with have a lot to do with it.
You might think s*x is pretty safe, but guys can do some serious damage to their manhoods if they test out certain positions.
Researchers in Brazil studied patients with penis fractures to see what they’d been up to in bed before they heard the gruesome cracking sound.
And one position was revealed as the most dangerous by far, followed by three other potentially-harmful moves.
It might not put you off, but here are a list of the most dangerous sexual manoeuvres:
1. Girl On Top
A recent study found that the popular woman-on-top position is the most dangerous.
The raunchy position, which is one of the best positions to make a woman orgasm, was deemed responsible for half of all penile fractures according to researchers in Brazil.
Scientists believe it is because the woman controls the penis with her entire body weight landing on it and is unable to interrupt it when it suffers a “wrong way penetration”.
2. The Pogo Stick
This is basically missionary, but standing up.
The move is risky because it is likely to put strain on the guys back. This can cause long term back problems.
Jiggling around while standing up also means your run the risk of falling over and the woman is at risk of being dropped.
3. Doggy
According to a recent study by Ann Summers, Doggy Style is actually the nation’s favourite s*x position.
The poll of adults across the UK found that one in four people favour that s*x position – while 23% like Woman On Top.
But research in Brazil found that 29% of men’s penis fractures were caused by this move.

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4. The Cowgirl Lean Back
You’re on your back and she’s sitting on top of you, but rather than leaning forward with her hands on your chest, she’s leaning right back with her hands on your ankles.
This position puts strain on the penis and can bend it the wrong way.
Like an elbow or knee, your erect penis can be “hyperextended” if you put too much or too frequent downward pressure on the shaft, a study from the University of California, San Francisco found.
Over time, this can lead to peyronie’s disease—a buildup of plaques that causes your rod to bend while erect.
This can make s*x difficult or even impossible in extreme cases.
So maybe make her lean forward in future!
If you want to play it safe in the bedroom, the best position to go for is man-on-top, more commonly known as Missionary.
“Our study supports the fact that sexual intercourse with ‘woman on top’ is the potentially riskiest sexual position related to penile fracture,” said the scientists who conducted the study into penis fractures.
“When the man is controlling the movement, he has better chances of stopping the penetration energy in response to the pain related to the penis harm, minimising it.”
You have been warned!

5 Signs The Person You Love Is NEVER Going to Marry You

You’re 100% wasting your time. If you’re wondering why the person you’re with isn’t making a deeper commitment to you, these 5 things might be the real reason why they aren’t moving closer to settling down with you:
1. They’re currently at a life stage where a committed relationship is NOT a priority.
Is your boyfriend or girlfriend going through higher education, recently out of a serious relationship, or dealing with a lot of ex drama? Or they’re working really hard toward something in their life besides you that they’re totally focused on?
Then they’re probably not thinking about settling down right now. Getting them to say yes to your marriage proposal or give you a rock isn’t very likely. They might genuinely love you and be cool with having a relationship with you, even one where they see you all the time. But if they’re not in an emotional space where they can handle further responsibilities, it might be a considerable wait before they’re ready to settle down— if it happens with you at all.
2. They actually say they never want to get married.
Trying to change their mind by morphing into super boy/girlfriend just screws up your own confidence and happiness. If you want a commitment and they very clearly don’t see themselves taking that step, respect their position and take their word on it.
3. Their emotional baggage is overwhelming.
Emotional roller coasters do not create situations where people are dying to settle down. If they’ve recently been divorced, abused or are working through a stressful time, they are bound to be hard to tie down. Sometimes waiting and helping someone through the situation works, sometimes not— it’s very circumstantial.
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4. You feel like a temporary fling.
Things like 1:00 AM booty calls, not being a priority, and their staunch avoidance of introducing you to their friends or family is a dead giveaway that this pairing is probably not going anywhere. They don’t see you as marriage material— and most likely never will.
Of all of the situations on this list, this one is the most doomed. If you really want to settle down, have the hard talk and move on from this type of casual fling. Trying to turn it into anything more is a recipe for pain and frustration.
5. Your life goals don’t line up.
If you want a drastically different life than they do over the long term, the fact that they don’t want to tie you down is actually a huge blessing in disguise. Love does not conquer all. It waxes and wanes.
Beneath it all, you MUST have a sense that your lives are going in the exact same direction for something to work out in the long run. You might feel like this is the greatest love the world has ever known, but trying to bring them home and domesticate them just isn’t going to work out.
You might be ready to settle down, but remember that one major key to getting a commitment is to pick someone who is ready for that.

Guys, Take Note: These Are 5 Surprising Places To Touch Your Woman & Make Her Go Wild For You Today

There are certain places to touch a woman and make her get stuck on you. These are some of those places.
We all know where the obvious sources of pleasure are, but there are other areas on her body that when touched, can bring her to climax. Switch up your routine by paying attention to these often overlooked sweet spots.
1. Mind
“When you look at arousal on a physiological level, the biggest $ex organ in the body is the mind,” says Men’s Fitness s*x advisor Ian Kerner. The B.rain controls the body’s production of the feel-good hormone dopamine. The more you stimulate her mentally, the more dopamine her body produces, lowering her inhibitions and sending her $ex drive soaring.
2. Skin
The way you touch a woman tells her whether you’re a gentle lover or a rough one, says Taormino. Remember, her body is covered with nerve receptors, so the opportunity to trigger her pleasure points is endless. Take your time here; it’ll be worth it.
3. Scent
“Women get really turned on by a guy’s scent,” says Kerner, Ph.D. Skip the cheap cologne, and attract her with your natural scent. (Shower first if you just hit the gym!).
4. Mouth
Whether slow and sensual, or rough and passionate, a good kiss is golden, according to Tristan Taormino, author of the Expert Guide to Female Orgasms. You’ll know when you’ve got it right by the way she groans, moans, or breathes.

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5. Feet
Tension builds up around the toes and sole of the foot. Help her unwind with a massage. “Some women love having their feet worshipped,” says Taormino.

Guys Don’t Panic! These Are 6 Secrets To Win Over The Girl Of Your Dreams…Don’t Joke With No. 2

If you’ve been thinking of how you can get hold of that beautiful girl of your dreams you have been eyeing, then this is for you.
1. Call her.
In this day and age of texting overload, you will absolutely distinguish yourself as a suitor if you make the effort to dial her digits to show you’re serious. Real connections happen through real-time conversation, and even by leaving a voicemail checking in to say hi, she’ll likely start to dig you more if she was into you in the first place. You should still text her from time to time to show her she’s on your mind, but texting should not be your primary form of communication.
2. Grab the cheque.
Even with the female gender making advancements in the workplace, it is a nice chivalrous gesture for the first four or five dates to grab at the cheque to show you are making an investment getting to know her. Be warned that even if she says “I can split,” she secretly wants you to pay. Just like men test women (and want to see the obligatory wallet reach), women test men to see if they accept their offer. To play it safe (just in case she is more traditional and decisive on these matters), I would insist on paying up until a point of exclusivity. It’s fine if you don’t take her to lavish, expensive meals each time — but paying each time signals your interest and will prevent her from potentially writing you off immediately.
3. Make the first date in her neighborhood. (Then ask if you can walk her home.)
In summation, I’ve “officially” dated three guys since my epic ex.
When setting the first date, make it convenient for her and in her hood. So long as she is not actively sick of her area, she’ll appreciate having it on her home turf. After the date, ask if you can walk her home. If she has not run away by now with some excuse on having to meet another friend or family member who is having an emergency, you can take that as a sign it went well. If she is fine with revealing where she lives to you and doesn’t think you’ll become a stalker, this is a nice touch to show you care about her protection and want to make sure she gets home safe.
4. Buy her a small token gift that shows you’re paying attention.
Did she mention she’s a huge fan of a particular band in passing? Get concert tickets for the next date. Is she always carrying a specific type of beverage, whether that is a brand of coffee or tea? Bring her a cup of it next time you see her. Has she expressed that she’s in search of a new iPhone case? Buy one for her in her favorite color, out of the blue with no particular occasion. If she already likes you, this will make her heart melt a little more and not come off creepy.
5. Make concrete follow-up plans.
Coming from someone who is more afraid of being hurt than being alone, I think it should be incumbent upon the guy to set the first few dates and make specific follow-up plans until you’re only seeing each other. While there may be slightly more proactive girls out there who are fine with taking the lead, it can often set up a pattern of complacency. I think most women appreciate when guys lead to remove the uncertainty of wanting to see each other again. If you think it comes off too eager to make follow-up plans while you’re on the date (guys — in line with other articles that have been written, let’s immediately get off this dating trend of seeing who can act more aloof), atleast send a text the next day indicating you’d like to set another date and will be in touch. If you will be out of town or have another reason you can’t meet for a week, make sure she knows you still want to see her and propose an actual specific day to get together after you get back. (We all know the all-too-common fade-away begins with vague, non-specific “I’ll call you when I get back into town.”)
6. Linguistically match her.
This is a subtle form of mirroring, but studies have shown that people who speak and write similarly are likely to be happier together than those who don’t. Makes sense, considering you often want to be on the same “level” as the person you are dating, and same level can often mean sophistication of prose. By matching her in the way she communicates, you are showing that you literally are speaking her “language” and on the same page. This helps show that you “get her” and will only increase her affection for you.
Guys are simple. If they want to see you, they will let you know.



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These 6 Things May Destroy Your Life As A Single Lady If You Don’t Stop

Love is a beautiful thing and lucky are those who have found it. If you’re yet to find it, keep calm and wait for it. While you wait for it, it’s not the time for you to be depressed and start feeling sorry for yourself.
Apparently single women are having sleepless nights about a lot of things that they shouldn’t really be worried about.
You can’t live your live being frequently consumed with worries about things that really don’t matter.
Just because, you’re still single at a certain age doesn’t mean you’re a failure. Marriage shouldn’t be the only thing we look forward to in life.
There’s more to life than answering ‘Mrs. somebody’, so you shouldn’t contain yourself in the box that society has set for you.
Below are six things single ladies should stop worrying about.
1. When will he put a ring on it
Dear single ladies, your ring will come when it will come. Stop worrying about it. It’s not your worrying that will make it happen. Think of the possibilities life has to offer you and take advantage of it instead of to waste your time. Life is too short to be having sleepless nights about when the ring will come.
2. All my friends have settled down and have children
This particular scenario happens to a lot of single ladies. They start to worry when all their friends are getting married and having children and it seem s like no man is even paying them any attention. You could easily begin to envy and even hate your friends if you let it fester and it would consume you.
3. Always being a bridesmaid, never a bride
Your time will come just hold on. Don’t waste your time and energy worrying about when it will come. In the meantime, enjoy celebrating with your friends.
4. Your fertility clock is ticking
From the time a woman reaches childbearing age, she knows that her clock is starting, and her time for having children is running out. In this day and age, you don’t have to your life be ruled by your biological clock as there are quite a few other options out there now than there used to be when it comes to fertility.

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5. What your parents, relatives and others think
You’ll never be happy if you constantly worry about what others think about you. Have you ever thought that their reason for always asking when you’re getting married may be because they can’t think of anything more diverse to ask you. Sometimes, they are just only trying to look out for you.
6. Never finding Mr. Right and having to be alone forever
Your life can be every bit as meaningful without a man by your side. Your life should not end just because you don’t have a man to share it with. You don’t need a man to be fulfilled. Don’t spend your time worrying about what will be.
What’s the use of worrying, it’s never worthwhile. If you think worrying long enough will change things, then you must be on another planet. Worrying will never change the outcome. So live your life and stop worrying. Life is too short to worry about anything. You had better enjoy it.

5 UNBELIEVABLE Ways S3x Can Harm You (Number 4 Will Shock You)

It’s not something most people want to think about. After all society and most advert promotes s ex as a pleasurable activity that’s a natural part of life. For the most part, they’re right.
Unfortunately, in some cases s ex can lead to conditions that will kill you. These situations are rare, but it’s a good idea to learn about them so you can reduce your risk. Here are some ways s ex can kill you.
1. Medical conditions can increase risk
You may have heard about someone dying during s ex. These cases are rare and usually are related to a pre-existing condition. Studies states that se xual activity triggers about one per cent of heart attacks, usually when a heart problem is already present. You should avoid s ex if you suffer from angina, uncontrolled hypertension, arrhythmias, cardiomyopathy (weak heart muscle), advanced heart failure, or if you’ve had a heart attack in the last two weeks.
2. Condoms can be lethal
Condom usage has skyrocketed since the awareness of HIV/AIDS. Latex condoms are the most popular, but some people are allergic to latex. In severe cases anaphylactic shock occurs and is fatal without immediate medical attention. If you’ve experienced a reaction to latex gloves stay away from latex condoms. If you’re not sure about your risk, get tested by a doctor. For those who are allergic there are alternatives.
3. S ex drugs
Viagra and similar drugs have also been found to increase the chance of catching a sudden heart attack during s ex. Viagra use has been linked to sudden cardiovascular death during s exual activity among men.
4. S ex during pregnancy is safe but with few exceptions
Concerns about hurting mother or baby during s ex are often unwarranted. A healthy pregnant woman can have s ex right up to delivery. However, avoid inserting anything into the va gina as this can cause injuries or infections dangerous to both mother and baby. If you have a cervical prolapse or leak amniotic fluid, you should avoid s ex. Blowing into the va gina is also dangerous. It can force an air bubble into the expectant mother’s bloodstream. If the bubble reaches the heart it can cut off blood flow to the lungs, causing death.
5. S exually transmitted diseases reduce life expectancy
The most common way to contract a s exually transmitted infection (STI) is through unprotected s ex. These diseases include genital herpes, hepatitis B, chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea, and HIV/AIDS.
The deadliest STI is human immunodeficiency virus or HIV, which causes AIDS or acquired immune deficiency syndrome. Drugs can control the disease and prolong your life expectancy. However, without proper medical attention most people die within 10 to 15 years of being infected. Another STI that reduces life expectancy is genital humanpapilloma virus (HPV). It is the most common STI in the US and can cause cervical, genital, or anal cancer.


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Photo: Househelp s*xually assaults 4-year-old girl, blames Satan

A house help sexually assaulted a four-year-old girl and said Satan made her commit the offence in Kenya.

Felista Wachira, 28, allegedly penetrated the genital organs of the minor using her fingers.
Wachira was charged on Monday with committing the offence between May 1 and July 10 in Nairobi.
The woman was also charged with indecently touching the minor without her consent.
The prosecution said the complainant's mother noticed her daughter had become quiet and behaved
negatively towards the house help. The girl also cried whenever the mother left for work.
The victim told her mother what happened when she talked to her in the house help's absence.
The girl said Wachira's actions left her in a lot of pain. She added that she was asked not to tell anyone as this was a "good thing".
Police said the accused shared a bedroom with the minor.
They said she would assault the girl after carrying her to bed. The sexual assault went on until the night the minor cried out and went to her mother's room.
A doctor confirmed the minor had been sexually assaulted.
Wachira was released on a surety bond of Sh300,000 in the case that will be heard on August 19.


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Fasion: Busty Lagos Girl with big bOObs Wearing Kampala Tube And Tight Leggings

This girl seems to be the trend at the moment. her fan base is group on a daily basis and she seems to be capitalizing on that by giving her followers a new captions everyday. Well we know you have arrived and enjoy your reign as it lasts.
And it seems Aunty Cossy too has relaxed to some extent. This is an opportunity for girl, ride on and have fun




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Graphic Photos: Notorious Robber Burnt To Death After Being Caught In Owerri

An infamous robber met his Waterloo today after he was descended upon by an angry mob who caught him “while on duty” in Owerri, Imo state capital.
He was beaten and set ablaze by the crowd. Below are pictures of his charred remains.




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